I agree with you, and I should have expounded on my own comment. I see both sides, I really do. My problem is that I try to push opposing viewpoints, even if I don't agree with them, to see where it takes both myself and others in a forum/discussion.

I don't participate in comments much on LJ, so I forgot how things work on here, which I guess is why people see me as they do. That's my fault.