I'm going to disagree with you on that one. In our culture, penis=power. Therefore, any time there's penetration going on, there's a power imbalance. I know it's not polite to say it, and a lot of people are going to jump down my throat for it, but there it is. (Also, equal power makes for no sizzle. That would be why there aren't more Hotch/Morgan shippers. They're equals and it would be dull.)

On the other hand, we're going off-topic.