>But from Haley's perspective, it was a no-brainer.
It shouldn't have been! I absolutely agree on this:
> When you marry someone and have a child together, you're not just roommates. You can't run off every time you feel like it because your family isn't as important to you as this other thing. His job was changing him and endangering their family (the guy bringing the note to the door in TFK 1, for example), but he didn't care.
Yet I think her comment completely ignored that he's NOT ONLY her husband. Yes, family should be his priority, but by saying "it's a no-brainer" she was saying that his other side didn't matter, that the ties he has to his co-workers didn't matter. I found that to be disregarding WHO he is...
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Date: Jan. 13th, 2012 10:10 pm (UTC)It shouldn't have been!
I absolutely agree on this:
> When you marry someone and have a child together, you're not just roommates. You can't run off every time you feel like it because your family isn't as important to you as this other thing. His job was changing him and endangering their family (the guy bringing the note to the door in TFK 1, for example), but he didn't care.
Yet I think her comment completely ignored that he's NOT ONLY her husband. Yes, family should be his priority, but by saying "it's a no-brainer" she was saying that his other side didn't matter, that the ties he has to his co-workers didn't matter. I found that to be disregarding WHO he is...