But I wasn't even talking about BDSM. I was merely talking about two men with equal power/dominance in bed where the bottom enjoys taking charge. It doesn't have anything to do with one partner being a manipulative sub or not making a great scene/story. The point I was trying to make was that bottoming doesn't automatically mean losing control during sex.
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Date: Jan. 24th, 2010 11:22 pm (UTC)